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It’s Not You, It’s Me
We’ve all been there. These exciting and varied shorts explore what it means to find a way forward in the inevitable struggles of love and life.
Cousins
Two cousins reunite in a Brooklyn bar, where a run-in with an ex makes the night even more chaotic.
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Director-Screenwriter
Karina Dandashi
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Producer
Aya Hamdan
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USA 2022 13min
It’s been a year
June has just lost her mother. Long-term girlfriend Sam struggles to know what to do.
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Director
Rosalie van de Biezen
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Producers
Eef Pannekeet, Vera van de Biezen, Rosalie van de Biezen
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Netherlands 2022 20min
Life in Love: Cinthia & Robyn
An asexual extrovert and their introverted partner search for intimacy and fun during a birthday adventure.
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Director-Screenwriter
Abel Rubinstein
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Producer
Lorine Plagnol
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UK 2022 12min
Ya Benti
Sabrina is about to marry Younes – a seemingly perfect match. But on the eve of the wedding, she backs out.
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Director
Anissa Allali
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Producers
Avi Amar, Katayoun Dibamehr. Screenwriters Anissa Allali, Clémence Madeleine-Perdrillat
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France 2022 24min
Alba Vulva
The best thing to do following the end of a 12-year-long relationship? Get a full-on bikini wax. Maybe…
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Director-Screenwriter
Dorka Vermes
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Producers
Gábor Osváth, Balázs Zachar, Juli Berkes
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Hungary 2022 15min
Butch up!
Mi-hae has just been dumped twice, by her girlfriend and her band. What next?
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Director
Yu-jin LEE
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South Korea 2022 12min
Total running time 96min
Rhianna Ilube
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