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Special Presentation
Big Girls Don’t Cry
Paloma Schneideman’s accomplished debut is an engrossing portrait of a teenage girl navigating her burgeoning desires in early 2000s New Zealand.
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Credits
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Director-screenwriter
Paloma Schneideman
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With
Ani Palmer, Rain Spencer, Noah Taylor
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New Zealand 2026. 100min
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Courtesy of
Blue Fox Entertainment
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Language
English
Introduction
It’s the summer holidays and 14-year-old Sid is adrift. Days are spent listlessly avoiding her distracted father (a fantastic Noah Taylor), while evenings see her exploring the murky worlds of online chatrooms. Caught on the cusp between childhood and adulthood, and experiencing the first bloom of sexuality, she is desperate to fit in, even modelling her behaviour after a group of older teens. Executive produced by Jane Campion and screening to great acclaim at this year’s Sundance Film Festival, Schneideman’s assured and intimate drama explores an age when desire and sexuality often feel impossible to articulate, but overwhelm in their intensity. Newcomer Ani Palmer perfectly captures these emotions in a performance that feels bracingly real and lived in.
Grace Barber-Plentie
Content advice
Contains scenes of drug use, nudity, and sex.
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