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Ageing With(out) You
This programme features queer elders of various ethnicities and orientations experiencing the unique challenges – and blessings – of ageing, with or without a partner. Wema Mumma
Love, Barbara
Preserving a loved one’s legacy can be challenging. Florrie Burke recounts the life and work of her wife, Barbara Hammer, the renowned lesbian filmmaker.
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Director
Brydie O’Connor
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Producers
Brydie O’Connor, Myriam Schroeter
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USA 2022 15min
After Sunset Dawn Arrives
With old age comes loss and loneliness, but perhaps it could also mean freedom and a chance to explore your sexuality.
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Director-Producer
Andy Yi Li
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Producers
Andy Yi Li, Bei Lameng, Yaxing Lin, Yifan Wang
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USA 2022 17min
Write Here
Having your memories slip away can be terrifying, especially when they are your only way of holding on to your spouse.
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Director-Producer-Screenwriter
Jake Muñoz Consing
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Philippines 2022 15min
The End
Becoming your partner’s caretaker can be a painful experience for both of you, maybe even one too painful to bear.
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Director
Fernando Reinaldos
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USA 2022 10min
Where do all the old gays go?
When I grow old, I want to go to an LGBTQIA+ nursing home with all my friends and still have our parties together!
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Director
Cathy Dunne
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Producer
Maggie Ryan
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Ireland 2022 19min
Total running time 76min
Wema Mumma
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